As some may or may not know, I work in the Quarter at G. I. Jane’s General Store. I sell a variety of self-defence and urban survival supplies. Stun guns and pepper spray are the biggest sellers. I make it a point to insist that they have it available, ie. In their hand. Think about how long it takes the average woman to get her keys out of her purse (sorry ladies, I don’t mean to be sexist). Now try and imagine a mugger waiting patiently for half that time. Probably not going to happen.
Despite living in one of the most violent cities on earth, most people who come in my store seem to be incapable of discussing crime/self-defence/weapons in serious fashion. They point and laugh, tell jokes about killing or f^@kin someone up, but when it comes to dealing with the very high (new orleans remember) probability that something might happen to them, they laugh it off or change the subject. The small hand-full who have given it serious thought don’t seem to have a realistic grasp of their options. Prime example: “I don’t want a stun gun, because you have to touch them with it and I don’t want them to get that close.” Sounds logical, but what you want and what happens….. If it were up to us, of course, we wouldn’t want anyone to mess with us at all. Unfortunately we don’t live on that planet.
Personally I’m torn. I’ve seen situations where the introduction of a weapon escalated things beyond sanity or control. I’ve also seem the timely and judicious use of a weapon stop fights before they started. I myself don’t carry a weapon. I’m also 6’2″, 190lbs and have facial tattoos. Besides I am perfectly comfortable using most anything at hand as a weapon. Ideally, I think, if one is worried about their safety, even a few weeks of almost any MA is going to help. Will you be able to stand up to Brock Lesner on PCP? No. But you might notice him coming up on you a little sooner. That would theoretically make it easier to run/deploy weapon/etc. I am afraid there is no one solution to every problem (relaxing couldn’t hurt though).
So… what do you think? Should people carry weapons? Which ones? What advice should I give someone? Keep in mind: weapons are not magic!
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